Self Esteem

Can u speak to a complete stranger without feeling ackward? Feel u r useless when meet people with better quality then u? think urself as dumb, useless and have a low iq?

If u answer those above with positive answer, then congratulations! U r bestowed with great personality and high self esteem! U r confident with urself and that is a good thing, u r capable to do something far better than normal person and that is ur ticket for ur success. Keep up the good work!

If u answer those question negatively, that is normal, dun feel bad about it. feel bad over something for a long time won't help u. What actually helps is to WORK to OVERCOME ur weakness! Do u get tired of being normal? and wanna b above average? U wan to throw away ur inferiority complex? if u said "yes", then great! U r already take the 1st step to improve urself.

When u wake up in da morning, start ur day by saying "This is a great day! i feel very great and nothing can stop me today!". Say it several times out loud!

After that, u r walking to work or college, u saw other people. Give them a smile, i'm sure they will smile back at u and thus, make u feel even better!

Okay, u reached ur workplace, Oh great! ur fren is so annoying.. keep making fun of u.. okay.. u feel irritated and make that sour face of urs. That is a normal reaction but not the best way. Y shud u waste ur good mood over some1 who don't deserve it? Handle ur emotion, even if u r irritated, the trick is to smile back at ur fren and said "i appreciate ur jokes but i would feel better if u cut it out". Other than that, just ignore him/her.

Take the positives, leave the negatives and u will feel a lot better! Try it out!
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